Child Support FAQ

Child support is a payment by one parent (often the “non-custodial parent”) to the other parent for the support of their common child. It is in the best interest of a child for both parents to be obligated to pay for the support of their child.

A Child Support Order is a document from a court that states (a) when, (b) how often, and (c) how much a parent is to pay for child support. A Child Support Order is typically part of a divorce decree or paternity judgment.

A court can order either parent of a child to pay support to other parent. The court order for support is usually payable on a weekly, bi-weekly or monthly basis. Many states now require that child support be paid by wage assignment (automatic deductions from the paycheck) whenever available, thus reducing the need for subsequent enforcement actions.

Connecticut law now requires that the amount of a child support payment be set in accordance with a guideline. Having a guideline is believed to prevent widely different amounts of child support being ordered from courtroom to courtroom. Guidelines provide an objective basis for the determination of the amount of support to be paid. The guidelines also assign obligations for daycare (if any) and unreimbursed child medical related expenses.There can be deviations from the presumed guideline amount.

The number of children in common between the parents is often considered. The theory is that certain fixed expenses do not rise with the number of children for whom support must be provided, so the actual amount of support per child is lower given the greater number of children in common.

Special circumstances, such as extraordinary medical expenses, special educational needs, travel expenses incurred for child visitation, uninsured catastrophic losses and the cost of basic living expenses for children from another relationship, can also affect the amount of guideline child support that is to be paid.

All states require both parents to be financially responsible for their child during the child’s minority, generally through the child’s high school years. Connecticut allows for an extension of payment obligations in certain circumstances. Child support can be terminated in the event of the death of the child, if the child goes on active duty in the armed forces, or if the child becomes emancipated.

An order for child support can be changed or modified any time there is a “material change in circumstances” from the time that the existing child support was issued.

In the situation where one parent does not cooperate in sharing the responsibility for child support, the controversy should be submitted to a court. The first step is to obtain an order for the payment of child support:

Wage Assignments: The most common “tool” used to collect child support payments that are not voluntarily made is through a wage assignment order. A wage assignment order is an order of the court directing the employer to deduct the child support payment from the earnings of an employee-obligor parent and then make this payment directly to the obligee parent.
Attachment Or Levy: Child support can also be collected through other procedures. For example, if the obligor has money in a bank, a valuable automobile, an investment in a mutual fund, an attachment or levy can be executed. The court can have the property of the obligor parent “seized” or taken away and given to the obligee parent.

Filing for bankruptcy protection does not allow a parent to discharge past due child support obligations. Any back payments owed for child support cannot be included as a debt and cannot be discharged in a bankruptcy proceeding.